The Noise is the Point

Our house is loud. 

Not the “someone left the TV on” loud.
Life-loud.

Footsteps thundering through the kitchen like it’s a racetrack.
Questions shouted from entirely different rooms (with zero intention of relocating).
Kids narrating every move they make.
The oven beeping.
Animals chiming in, because obviously there’s baby goats in the house.
Multiple conversations stacked on top of each other until it all turns into background noise you don’t even hear anymore.

For a long time, I thought all that noise meant I was failing at something.
That things were out of control.
That if I were doing this right, our days would be quieter… calmer… more Pinterest, less percussion section.

But I’m realizing something lately.

The noise is the point.

Noise means the kids feel safe enough to be fully themselves.
It means learning happens out loud.
It means baking, movement, curiosity, questions, and connection are all happening at the same time—because life doesn’t take turns.

It’s family & cousins in the house, stories floating through the air.
School happening between snacks and side conversations.
Life being lived right now, not postponed until things magically “settle down.”

Quiet has its place.
This just isn’t the quiet season.

This season is full.

And I know one day the house will be quieter.
The questions will slow.
The footsteps won’t race through the kitchen anymore.

So for now, I’m letting the noise be what it is.

Not a problem to fix.
Not a failure to manage.
Just proof that we’re here—together—living a very full, very loud, very good life. 💛

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Hi, I’m Michelle — recovering teacher, twin wrangler, and the author of all the honest chaos you’ll find here.